The Affair Crisis Plan

An Intelligent and Practical Response to Relationship Betrayal

Created by: Les Carter, Ph. D.
Professional Relationship Specialist, Therapist, and Author

What Will I Learn?

• Restore common sense and reason in an emotionally loaded situation using six proven strategies.
• Reestablish genuine trust using solutions that eliminate deception and entitlement.
• Bring back relational order by effectively dealing with the third-party without the anxiety that your partner will re-engage with the other person.
• Rediscover authentic sexual intimacy with confidence and trust in your partner.
• Effectively manage the needs of children, family, and friends while alleviating confusion and pain.
• Regain a healthy emotional framework that will protect you from feelings of anger, hurt, and betrayal.
• Experience authentic forgiveness without fear or regret.
• Rebuild genuine trust through practical and effective action plans
• Reinstill comfort and security through powerful communication models that create environments of healing and understanding.
• Rebuild balance, credibility, and trustworthiness by addressing malfunctioning relationship patterns.
• Identify the issues that really matter that will enable the affected parties to discern if the marriage can move forward with legitimate adjustments.

Requirements

• To get the most out of The Affair Crisis Plan I encourage the student to have access to a printer so that they can download and print the supplemental Let’s Talk questionnaires for each lecture. These printouts will become a vital resource for your relationship. I strongly recommend revisiting your Let’s Talk questionnaires regularly as a way to reflect, meditate and recognize signs of growth. Using these resources plays a significant role in self-perception, identifying belief structures, and discovering the nature of going above and beyond relationship healing and growth.

Target audience

• Students are individuals or couples who’ve experienced an affair or are looking to understand and resolve the complexities resulting from this form of entanglement.
• The Affair Crisis Plan is also recommended for others who wish to “affair-proof” their current or future relationships.